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Rejected by CF

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Iamqueenofeverything

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I know this maybe a toughie.

Has a person who you thought was a close friend ever pushed you away due to CF?

I have had a "best friend" push me away every time I went to the hospital when we were so-called friends.

My ex boyfriend refused to help me with the money issue of CF. He didn't want to find a job so that he can get affordable insurance. I am in a great situation with my parents where I can stay at my parents house til I am married. They can claim me as a dependent. I am doing a job which I have dreamed of doing ever since I was a child, got an education for, and have a work schedule that fits my health needs. Doing another job or work in a different job field is out of the question for me. Why work when I am unhappy?

It turns out that these two people were immature people who just used my Cf as an excuse for their immaturity. Still hurt though.

So I am wondering if others have been rejected due to their CF?
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
I know this maybe a toughie.

Has a person who you thought was a close friend ever pushed you away due to CF?

I have had a "best friend" push me away every time I went to the hospital when we were so-called friends.

My ex boyfriend refused to help me with the money issue of CF. He didn't want to find a job so that he can get affordable insurance. I am in a great situation with my parents where I can stay at my parents house til I am married. They can claim me as a dependent. I am doing a job which I have dreamed of doing ever since I was a child, got an education for, and have a work schedule that fits my health needs. Doing another job or work in a different job field is out of the question for me. Why work when I am unhappy?

It turns out that these two people were immature people who just used my Cf as an excuse for their immaturity. Still hurt though.

So I am wondering if others have been rejected due to their CF?
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
I know this maybe a toughie.

Has a person who you thought was a close friend ever pushed you away due to CF?

I have had a "best friend" push me away every time I went to the hospital when we were so-called friends.

My ex boyfriend refused to help me with the money issue of CF. He didn't want to find a job so that he can get affordable insurance. I am in a great situation with my parents where I can stay at my parents house til I am married. They can claim me as a dependent. I am doing a job which I have dreamed of doing ever since I was a child, got an education for, and have a work schedule that fits my health needs. Doing another job or work in a different job field is out of the question for me. Why work when I am unhappy?

It turns out that these two people were immature people who just used my Cf as an excuse for their immaturity. Still hurt though.

So I am wondering if others have been rejected due to their CF?
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
I know this maybe a toughie.

Has a person who you thought was a close friend ever pushed you away due to CF?

I have had a "best friend" push me away every time I went to the hospital when we were so-called friends.

My ex boyfriend refused to help me with the money issue of CF. He didn't want to find a job so that he can get affordable insurance. I am in a great situation with my parents where I can stay at my parents house til I am married. They can claim me as a dependent. I am doing a job which I have dreamed of doing ever since I was a child, got an education for, and have a work schedule that fits my health needs. Doing another job or work in a different job field is out of the question for me. Why work when I am unhappy?

It turns out that these two people were immature people who just used my Cf as an excuse for their immaturity. Still hurt though.

So I am wondering if others have been rejected due to their CF?
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
I know this maybe a toughie.
<br />
<br />Has a person who you thought was a close friend ever pushed you away due to CF?
<br />
<br />I have had a "best friend" push me away every time I went to the hospital when we were so-called friends.
<br />
<br />My ex boyfriend refused to help me with the money issue of CF. He didn't want to find a job so that he can get affordable insurance. I am in a great situation with my parents where I can stay at my parents house til I am married. They can claim me as a dependent. I am doing a job which I have dreamed of doing ever since I was a child, got an education for, and have a work schedule that fits my health needs. Doing another job or work in a different job field is out of the question for me. Why work when I am unhappy?
<br />
<br />It turns out that these two people were immature people who just used my Cf as an excuse for their immaturity. Still hurt though.
<br />
<br />So I am wondering if others have been rejected due to their CF?
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)
but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)
but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)
but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)
but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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marchcutie

New member
ur not alone at all i no exactly what ur talkin bout.. heres one of my stories. i went to a new school called stapley jr high and of course being new nobody liked me. because my school district was stupid they made me ride the special ed bus! i was so humiliated everyday getting on and off the bus. ppl asked all the time why i was on it but i did my best to keep the cf a secret till one day this mean boy found out about it (apparently my only "friend" at that school told him) and he spread it around the entire school and i was an outcast by lunch time. i had to endure 2 years (8th and 9th grade) of being ignored and invisible only time i was noticed was when i was teased. finally my grades started suffering really bad and my parents didnt no why so they took me to a therapist and she made me talk to my parents. after i told my parents what was going on i told them i didnt want to go to school any more and they said obviously i cant drop out so they let me choose a school i wanted to go to, any school. well i chose Gilbert Early College and now i luv school (most days)
<br /> but i think this is why ppl with cf need websites like these b/c everyone has been rejected by cf in some way we all need to stick together and help eachother out with these things
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
Totally!

I am my 30s. people find new ways to be mean all the time. It's frustrating.

My true friends still don't get the CF part of me. They ask silly questions all the time.

I am glad that there are websites to where people just get me.
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
Totally!

I am my 30s. people find new ways to be mean all the time. It's frustrating.

My true friends still don't get the CF part of me. They ask silly questions all the time.

I am glad that there are websites to where people just get me.
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
Totally!

I am my 30s. people find new ways to be mean all the time. It's frustrating.

My true friends still don't get the CF part of me. They ask silly questions all the time.

I am glad that there are websites to where people just get me.
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
Totally!

I am my 30s. people find new ways to be mean all the time. It's frustrating.

My true friends still don't get the CF part of me. They ask silly questions all the time.

I am glad that there are websites to where people just get me.
 
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Iamqueenofeverything

New member
Totally!
<br />
<br />I am my 30s. people find new ways to be mean all the time. It's frustrating.
<br />
<br />My true friends still don't get the CF part of me. They ask silly questions all the time.
<br />
<br />I am glad that there are websites to where people just get me.
 
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