i have a question for all of you who had full time jobs before you gave birth. how long of a maternity leave did you take? i am planning on going back to work after eight weeks of maternity leave. i hope that will be enough time for me. what do you guys think? i would love to be a stay at home mother but until my fiance and i are married it is a MUST that i work so i can have health insurance. otherwise if we were married i would be on his insurance and would be able to stay home. i just hope i stay healthy through the pregnancy and post pregnancy.