I was just wondering if anyone here has a job related to CF, and how it affects you. Basically, I'm wondering if having to think about CF issues at work can get to be too much emotionally... if it might be better to have a job that would be more of a break from thinking about all the hard CF stuff?
My background (sorry if it's long): I'm 26, my 27-year-old husband has CF, met him at the end of college, when I was already planning on going to grad school. I'm currently finishing up my masters in biomedical engineering, having done my research project on neural interface work (think prosthetics etc). I had been planning on getting a PhD but I have been struggling in grad school. Got married last summer, and then my husband had some fairly serious issues with depression... luckily his health is ok still, but that period had the two of us struggling with some of the heavy stuff that CF'ers go through. It was was a challenging period, and my work suffered a lot.. to the point where my advisor said something to me about not thinking I should stay for a PhD.
At this point I just don't know what I want to do. My interests in college had always been focused on neuroscience related work. But I feel like my whole perspective on life has changed, and I've been struggling to stay motivated with my research. I looked at a lot of other options career-wise, and during my searching, found a lab doing research for CF. I am seriously considering contacting the head of this lab to see if I could work there.
So my question: is it a good idea to focus my career on CF related research? On the one hand, I feel like I would have a very high motivation level, because I'd be doing work related to an issue that is extremely important to my life. On the other hand, I am worried that constantly thinking about CF might be too much emotionally for me to handle. I believe that we need to find balance in our lives, and my husband has always taken the tactic of not focusing on his CF. I admire him for that, and he's been able to accomplish so much: got a job and bought a house right out of college, then got a better job closer to me, we got married and bought a condo together. I know that being overly focused on CF can lead to a lot of depressing thoughts. So I'm not sure what to do. I guess I feel that it might be helpful to be doing something productive about CF - maybe it would let me feel more in control?
So, just wondering if anyone here does CF related work, and if it takes a toll on you emotionally, or if you find it to be motivating and gives you a feeling of purpose with regards to the disease. Any responses would be very helpful at this point, since my husband is pretty private about CF so I don't have many people to talk to about these issues. Thanks for reading!
My background (sorry if it's long): I'm 26, my 27-year-old husband has CF, met him at the end of college, when I was already planning on going to grad school. I'm currently finishing up my masters in biomedical engineering, having done my research project on neural interface work (think prosthetics etc). I had been planning on getting a PhD but I have been struggling in grad school. Got married last summer, and then my husband had some fairly serious issues with depression... luckily his health is ok still, but that period had the two of us struggling with some of the heavy stuff that CF'ers go through. It was was a challenging period, and my work suffered a lot.. to the point where my advisor said something to me about not thinking I should stay for a PhD.
At this point I just don't know what I want to do. My interests in college had always been focused on neuroscience related work. But I feel like my whole perspective on life has changed, and I've been struggling to stay motivated with my research. I looked at a lot of other options career-wise, and during my searching, found a lab doing research for CF. I am seriously considering contacting the head of this lab to see if I could work there.
So my question: is it a good idea to focus my career on CF related research? On the one hand, I feel like I would have a very high motivation level, because I'd be doing work related to an issue that is extremely important to my life. On the other hand, I am worried that constantly thinking about CF might be too much emotionally for me to handle. I believe that we need to find balance in our lives, and my husband has always taken the tactic of not focusing on his CF. I admire him for that, and he's been able to accomplish so much: got a job and bought a house right out of college, then got a better job closer to me, we got married and bought a condo together. I know that being overly focused on CF can lead to a lot of depressing thoughts. So I'm not sure what to do. I guess I feel that it might be helpful to be doing something productive about CF - maybe it would let me feel more in control?
So, just wondering if anyone here does CF related work, and if it takes a toll on you emotionally, or if you find it to be motivating and gives you a feeling of purpose with regards to the disease. Any responses would be very helpful at this point, since my husband is pretty private about CF so I don't have many people to talk to about these issues. Thanks for reading!