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michaelbohlen

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my girlfriend of 3 years has CF and i have a tough time convincing her to do her meds im really trying everything she just has a tough time remembering and beyond that she always gets upset how its not fair and i feel like maby shes right i dont have to do any medicine at all and they expect her to take more meds than anyone i know i dont know how im going to get her to but there has to be a way does anyone have any ideas if you do please email me michaelbohlen@gmail.com
thanks
 
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michaelbohlen

New member
my girlfriend of 3 years has CF and i have a tough time convincing her to do her meds im really trying everything she just has a tough time remembering and beyond that she always gets upset how its not fair and i feel like maby shes right i dont have to do any medicine at all and they expect her to take more meds than anyone i know i dont know how im going to get her to but there has to be a way does anyone have any ideas if you do please email me michaelbohlen@gmail.com
thanks
 
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michaelbohlen

New member
my girlfriend of 3 years has CF and i have a tough time convincing her to do her meds im really trying everything she just has a tough time remembering and beyond that she always gets upset how its not fair and i feel like maby shes right i dont have to do any medicine at all and they expect her to take more meds than anyone i know i dont know how im going to get her to but there has to be a way does anyone have any ideas if you do please email me michaelbohlen@gmail.com
<br />thanks
 
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windex125

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This may sound cruel and I don't want it to, but you can't make her do them. It is unfortunate but you may have to move on with your life without her. This is a hard cross to bear as the saying goes, we all fall off the wagon occassionally, emotionally it's alot. But you cannot take on her sickness, she has to have the will power to do her treatments and take her meds. I know it is very hard for younger people to deal with this disease, I was not as dedicated at times either in my younger years, but I was better than I am now. Make sense? So you are not her keeper, or her boss, and please don't say well if you don't do them I am breaking up with you. But have a serious talk tell her you care for her, but she has to care for herself first. and if you does not do what is best for her, it's not your job plain and simple. I am much older and I know that stage of life. Pat-56/CF
 
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windex125

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This may sound cruel and I don't want it to, but you can't make her do them. It is unfortunate but you may have to move on with your life without her. This is a hard cross to bear as the saying goes, we all fall off the wagon occassionally, emotionally it's alot. But you cannot take on her sickness, she has to have the will power to do her treatments and take her meds. I know it is very hard for younger people to deal with this disease, I was not as dedicated at times either in my younger years, but I was better than I am now. Make sense? So you are not her keeper, or her boss, and please don't say well if you don't do them I am breaking up with you. But have a serious talk tell her you care for her, but she has to care for herself first. and if you does not do what is best for her, it's not your job plain and simple. I am much older and I know that stage of life. Pat-56/CF
 
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windex125

Guest
This may sound cruel and I don't want it to, but you can't make her do them. It is unfortunate but you may have to move on with your life without her. This is a hard cross to bear as the saying goes, we all fall off the wagon occassionally, emotionally it's alot. But you cannot take on her sickness, she has to have the will power to do her treatments and take her meds. I know it is very hard for younger people to deal with this disease, I was not as dedicated at times either in my younger years, but I was better than I am now. Make sense? So you are not her keeper, or her boss, and please don't say well if you don't do them I am breaking up with you. But have a serious talk tell her you care for her, but she has to care for herself first. and if you does not do what is best for her, it's not your job plain and simple. I am much older and I know that stage of life. Pat-56/CF
 
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