Hi Meghan, i am sooo sorry, I am totally guitly of reading but not posting. sometimes I just don't know what to say and when info is limited I don't say anything. I'm not big on just saying "you'll be in my prayers" because I often think it sounds so...uhmmm fake. Everyone says it but a lot of people don't mean it. So instead I try to actually stop and say the prayer instead of taking the time to type the dumb sentence. So you had my thoughts and get well vibes if not the inane sentence. I do hope Chad gets some good news here pretty soon. It is an eye opening experience to be the one watching a loved one be sick for a change from being the sick one. I don't think anything is scarier. You are both in my thoughts- and I'll type it...my prayers. And you are right some words are probably better than none. Thank you for the reminder, I am sorry I was a jerk face.