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I know someone with CF and would like some advice

blondelawyer

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Welcome to the site! This is a great place to learn about CF.

I agree with Amy...people deal with CF very differently. For example, unlike Amy, my husband is very private about CF, so he doesn't talk about it with other people much and very few people even know that he has CF. So, there is a wide range of how people deal with it.

Personally, I would just approach it like you would with anybody else that you want to get to know. If she wants to talk about it, she will bring it up.
 

blondelawyer

New member
Welcome to the site! This is a great place to learn about CF.

I agree with Amy...people deal with CF very differently. For example, unlike Amy, my husband is very private about CF, so he doesn't talk about it with other people much and very few people even know that he has CF. So, there is a wide range of how people deal with it.

Personally, I would just approach it like you would with anybody else that you want to get to know. If she wants to talk about it, she will bring it up.
 

blondelawyer

New member
Welcome to the site! This is a great place to learn about CF.

I agree with Amy...people deal with CF very differently. For example, unlike Amy, my husband is very private about CF, so he doesn't talk about it with other people much and very few people even know that he has CF. So, there is a wide range of how people deal with it.

Personally, I would just approach it like you would with anybody else that you want to get to know. If she wants to talk about it, she will bring it up.
 

blondelawyer

New member
Welcome to the site! This is a great place to learn about CF.

I agree with Amy...people deal with CF very differently. For example, unlike Amy, my husband is very private about CF, so he doesn't talk about it with other people much and very few people even know that he has CF. So, there is a wide range of how people deal with it.

Personally, I would just approach it like you would with anybody else that you want to get to know. If she wants to talk about it, she will bring it up.
 

NoExcuses

New member
Just wanted to add - just because she doesn't bring it up doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to talk about it (at least that's my case).

I don't say "hey, i'm amy, i have CF", but rather when people comment about my cough (which happens often), that i sound nasaly (often), or ask why i'm going to the doc so often etc etc i explain my cf.

But what Lisa said was perfect <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

NoExcuses

New member
Just wanted to add - just because she doesn't bring it up doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to talk about it (at least that's my case).

I don't say "hey, i'm amy, i have CF", but rather when people comment about my cough (which happens often), that i sound nasaly (often), or ask why i'm going to the doc so often etc etc i explain my cf.

But what Lisa said was perfect <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

NoExcuses

New member
Just wanted to add - just because she doesn't bring it up doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to talk about it (at least that's my case).

I don't say "hey, i'm amy, i have CF", but rather when people comment about my cough (which happens often), that i sound nasaly (often), or ask why i'm going to the doc so often etc etc i explain my cf.

But what Lisa said was perfect <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

NoExcuses

New member
Just wanted to add - just because she doesn't bring it up doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to talk about it (at least that's my case).

I don't say "hey, i'm amy, i have CF", but rather when people comment about my cough (which happens often), that i sound nasaly (often), or ask why i'm going to the doc so often etc etc i explain my cf.

But what Lisa said was perfect <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

NoExcuses

New member
Just wanted to add - just because she doesn't bring it up doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to talk about it (at least that's my case).

I don't say "hey, i'm amy, i have CF", but rather when people comment about my cough (which happens often), that i sound nasaly (often), or ask why i'm going to the doc so often etc etc i explain my cf.

But what Lisa said was perfect <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

NoExcuses

New member
Just wanted to add - just because she doesn't bring it up doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to talk about it (at least that's my case).

I don't say "hey, i'm amy, i have CF", but rather when people comment about my cough (which happens often), that i sound nasaly (often), or ask why i'm going to the doc so often etc etc i explain my cf.

But what Lisa said was perfect <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

beleache

New member
Hi and Welcome, I agree w/ Amy & Lisa, everyone is different...Hope you have a great friendship w/ her, we c/fers are special <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 

beleache

New member
Hi and Welcome, I agree w/ Amy & Lisa, everyone is different...Hope you have a great friendship w/ her, we c/fers are special <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 

beleache

New member
Hi and Welcome, I agree w/ Amy & Lisa, everyone is different...Hope you have a great friendship w/ her, we c/fers are special <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 

beleache

New member
Hi and Welcome, I agree w/ Amy & Lisa, everyone is different...Hope you have a great friendship w/ her, we c/fers are special <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 

beleache

New member
Hi and Welcome, I agree w/ Amy & Lisa, everyone is different...Hope you have a great friendship w/ her, we c/fers are special <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 

beleache

New member
Hi and Welcome, I agree w/ Amy & Lisa, everyone is different...Hope you have a great friendship w/ her, we c/fers are special <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 

Emily65Roses

New member
What they said. I'm like Amy, personally. I won't go "I HAVE CF!!!!" but if asked, I am happy to talk about it.

Also just wanted to welcome you. You don't have to be really close to someone with CF to be welcome here. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

Emily65Roses

New member
What they said. I'm like Amy, personally. I won't go "I HAVE CF!!!!" but if asked, I am happy to talk about it.

Also just wanted to welcome you. You don't have to be really close to someone with CF to be welcome here. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

Emily65Roses

New member
What they said. I'm like Amy, personally. I won't go "I HAVE CF!!!!" but if asked, I am happy to talk about it.

Also just wanted to welcome you. You don't have to be really close to someone with CF to be welcome here. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

Emily65Roses

New member
What they said. I'm like Amy, personally. I won't go "I HAVE CF!!!!" but if asked, I am happy to talk about it.

Also just wanted to welcome you. You don't have to be really close to someone with CF to be welcome here. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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