<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>cfmomma</b></i>
you have every right to be pissed at your bitchy, free-loading, inconsiderate, selfish sister. You let her in your house and she has completly taken advantage of you regardless of your recent health problems, that is SICK!! I have three brothers and I know I antagonized them to hit me and sometimes they did. I wanted them to get in trouble and I wanted them to look like an ass. I wanted to be the victim. Sounds like your sister wants to be the victim as well. The major difference is that I was a kid and I was acting like a bratty little sister. She's an adult and has no excuse to behave like that. I'd like to reach through my laptop and bitch-slap her myself---nothing is better than a good old cat-fight! I hope the two of you can resolve this. Deep down you both love each other, but it make take a while for her to come to grip with reality. I love my brothers and we have had some pretty viscious fights, but we got over it eventually. Yeah, you probably scared the crap out of her and you expressed your rage, but you didn't hit her and that is what is important. Us women are smart and we know what it takes to piss a guy off. Pissing a guy off on purpose because you have an invisible shield of "I'm a girl, you can't hurt me" is horribly wrong and very unfair. She needs to get out of your house and she needs to know her behavior is unacceptable. Hang in there and get some sleep.</end quote></div>
Thanks, and I agree. The same would apply to anyone who apparently has a disadvantage in the realm of the physical vs a grown, decent size guy. It could be a midget, someone with no legs, a woman, or whoever. Don't go out of your way to antagonize someone (regardless of gender really), because they could have the will power and pacifistic nature of Ghandi, but EVERYONE has their eventualy breaking point, and if you purposely pushed buttons to try and find it, there shouldn't be any sympathy for you in anyones eyes.
It's like the moron who grabs a small stick and starts poking an old, mellow aligator over and over, every day. Untill one day he does it a few more times, then WHAMO, the gator has a meal (I live in Florida, so actual things like this happen often). Violence is wrong, but humans are very capable of violence, especially if pushed to the breaking point.
As I said, i'm just glad I only destroyed the fan, I can't see myself ever hitting her even with her antagonizing me, but who knows, theres a first time for everything.
you have every right to be pissed at your bitchy, free-loading, inconsiderate, selfish sister. You let her in your house and she has completly taken advantage of you regardless of your recent health problems, that is SICK!! I have three brothers and I know I antagonized them to hit me and sometimes they did. I wanted them to get in trouble and I wanted them to look like an ass. I wanted to be the victim. Sounds like your sister wants to be the victim as well. The major difference is that I was a kid and I was acting like a bratty little sister. She's an adult and has no excuse to behave like that. I'd like to reach through my laptop and bitch-slap her myself---nothing is better than a good old cat-fight! I hope the two of you can resolve this. Deep down you both love each other, but it make take a while for her to come to grip with reality. I love my brothers and we have had some pretty viscious fights, but we got over it eventually. Yeah, you probably scared the crap out of her and you expressed your rage, but you didn't hit her and that is what is important. Us women are smart and we know what it takes to piss a guy off. Pissing a guy off on purpose because you have an invisible shield of "I'm a girl, you can't hurt me" is horribly wrong and very unfair. She needs to get out of your house and she needs to know her behavior is unacceptable. Hang in there and get some sleep.</end quote></div>
Thanks, and I agree. The same would apply to anyone who apparently has a disadvantage in the realm of the physical vs a grown, decent size guy. It could be a midget, someone with no legs, a woman, or whoever. Don't go out of your way to antagonize someone (regardless of gender really), because they could have the will power and pacifistic nature of Ghandi, but EVERYONE has their eventualy breaking point, and if you purposely pushed buttons to try and find it, there shouldn't be any sympathy for you in anyones eyes.
It's like the moron who grabs a small stick and starts poking an old, mellow aligator over and over, every day. Untill one day he does it a few more times, then WHAMO, the gator has a meal (I live in Florida, so actual things like this happen often). Violence is wrong, but humans are very capable of violence, especially if pushed to the breaking point.
As I said, i'm just glad I only destroyed the fan, I can't see myself ever hitting her even with her antagonizing me, but who knows, theres a first time for everything.