I had actually heard the AF has a different program than the other branches as well... for example, at one point in the past, Julie had mentioned that your spouse can't be sent somewhere without you as a long tour, which my EFMP office said was not true. For the AF, the responsibilites of the military member are not at all altered (other than where you can get stationed) because of EFMP status. Stupid, if you ask me. But, they said, if they need to send him somewhere overseas, and there is no alternative, he'd have to go. For example, if DH has to go to Korea for a year, he'd still have to go, even though I am in EFMP and am "dependent" on him. Urgh.... frustrating! I mean, most of the time, I am very independent, but if I need IV's or get really sick and have no strength to cook/clean/even get up in the morning, I really AM dependent on him, and if we're alone in a city with no family or friends, I'd like to know what I'm supposed to do if he's in Korea!?!? (sorry for the rant, just gets me very upset...)