i am afraid of these questions being thrown at me. my son is still just an infant, but i already think about it, and i think that the way that I am going to go about it is to start explaining it to him now and continually explain it to him, so he understands it a little better as he is old enough to really know whats going on and that whehter we like to admit it or not, he IS different than other kids! But, as you said, extra extra special!