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Making it to 54 with CF

Debi

New member
Since several people have asked me at different times about being such an "old" CFer (and I use the word "old" with an enormous amount of pride!), I thought I'd make this a new topic so you wouldn't have to search through other topics to find my story. I live in Arizona, and I was not technically diagnosed with CF until in I was in my early forties. I only have lung issues with my CF (well, except for GERD). I have had chronic and serious lung problems since early childhood, but the standard sweat test for CF always came back negative (I've had about 10-15 in my lifetime at multiple institutions). I grew up in Michigan, moving to Arizona in my early 20's. Still, the doctors always treated me as if I had CF and used the same medications, airway clearance, etc. However, when the vest and Pulmozyme became available, I was not able to get them through insurance because insurance would only cover them for someone with a CF diagnosis. And I couldn't afford them on my own, so I didn't have access to either.

I got very ill in my forties, ending up on a vent in the hospital for awhile. By that time the gene had been identified, and blood tests were available for diagnosis, and that is when I was officially diagnosed. I have a mutation, but have no idea which one. I could probably look it up in my medical charts if someone thinks that info would help them. The only thing that the diagnosis changed is that the insurance company magically began covering Pulmozyme and the Vest.

I have worked full time since I graduated from college in my 20's. I have two children, who are adopted from Korea. They are now teenagers, and on some days I think they are taking a greater toll on my health than the CF!!!! JK, JK, JK.

I have been fairly compliant with my meds and chest physiotherapy my whole life. Moreso with the meds than the chest pt. I was extemely physically active until my late thirties, playing tennis, bicycling, hiking, backpacking. I honestly believe that physical activity more than took the place of percussion. Since the vent episode, I have never really gotten back to a place where I can do anything more physical than take walks.

Here is my daily regime of meds:
AM: albuterol, pulmozyme, Advair, Prilosec, azythromycin (MWF)
PM: albuterol, pulmozyme (yes, I use it twice a day), Advair
I also just started taking Oreganol gel capsules

I use the vest once a day, have my husband or one of the kids "beat" on me once a day (more on weekends or when I feel especially junky), and use the flutter valve once or twice a day.

I have been on continuous oxygen for about a year now. My goal is to get off of it in the next six months. In the past, I have been on and off it for varying amounts of time. I am very liberal in my use of oxygen, and have learned how to cart it everywhere. I have a concentrator at home, and use both the large and small portable tanks, depending on where I'm going. I will tell you that at first it was hard to get over the embarassment of being out in public with it. The first time I had to use it I was working in the Governor's office in a very public job. I just pushed past the embarassment. I still have a very public job. I think at work most people now treat it like my own piece of very large jewelry. People are amazingly wonderful about it.

I took a pulmonary rehabilitation class once, and it was fantastic for teaching all sorts of ways to conserve energy and maximize lung capacity. If you have that available to you, I cannot recommend it enough.

I definitely know the warm weather has been helpful, although the growing air pollution problems here are slowly choking me.

My family, friends and co-workers are supportive beyond measure. I read everything I can get my hands on about CF. I don't even know where to begin to tell you how awesome my doctors have been. My pulmonologist treats my flareups based not only on the lab results, but more importantly on what I tell him about how I'm feeling. He always tells me that I am the expert and that he is a supporter. One time when I was hospitalized he had two docs from the CF clinic come over for consults, and offered to transfer me to their care. I really liked the CF clinic doc who took care of kids, but I did not like the attitude of the CF clinic doc who dealt with adults. So, for the time being, I'm sticking with my pulmonologist.

I inherited a positive, but realist, attitude from my father, the true expert in making lemonade out of lemons. I have also learned to let people help me. I think that has been the hardest thing to learn, but one of the most useful. I let people help me with everything, and I've quit feeling guilty or ashamed about it. They seem to enjoy making a difference in my life, and I sure can use the extra help. So, if someone offers to run over to the cafeteria in the building next door at work to pick lunch up for me, I hand them my money and say thanks. If I'm feeling too tired to run next door and no one has stopped by yet to offer, I pick up the phone and call someone and ask them, if they're headed that way, would they bring me something.

In some ways, I think not knowing that I really had CF for all those years helped me also. I never had any thoughts about "life expectancy." I just assumed I could lead a very active and long life. I have to say that knowing I have CF has led me to some mental conversations that are not particularly productive. And I do obsess about things I never even thought of before the diagnosis.

You must all be tired of reading this by now, and I'm not sure what else you might want to know. I am an open book with everyone (work, neighbors, soccer and swim parents, and strangers) about my health, so if you have any questions, please feel free to ask. Except, don't ask my FEVs. My doctor and I quit doing them a long time ago because the test just made me exhausted and depressed and wasn't going to change the treatment anyway, so I don't know what they are.

I'm going outside to bask in the sun for awhile (with sunscreen, don't worry)! It's a gorgeous day and I have so many books to read....

Debi
54 w/CF
grateful for all the wonderful people who participate on this site
 

Alyssa

New member
Thank you for the post !

As a parent of children with CF, it is always nice to hear from adults w/ CF -- somehow it alleviates some of the mystery and fear that may come our way in the future.
 

blindhearted

New member
Did u know u had CF at the time when u adopted ur children? was CF ever an issue or problem during the adoption process? Me and my husband are thinking of the possibility of adopting someday but I'm afraid if an agency found out I had CF then they would refuse to let us adopt. How this isnt too personal. Thanks for letting me ask.
 

thelizardqueen

New member
Its reassuring to know that there are some older adults with CF that are still doing great, even though they were diagnosed later on in life. Just because it took doctors so long to diagnose you, does not mean that you DIDN'T have CF growing up!
 

anonymous

New member
Congratulations!

What books do you read? I like Dan Brown, James Rollins, Clive Cussler(sometimes), Anne McCaffrey, Matthew Reilly and much more...

Uli,43,Germany,cf/cfrd
 

anonymous

New member
Welcome to this site Debi. Your story is quite inspiring. That is wonderful that you are a Mom. Positive attitude is so important. How long where you on the vent for? Just curious. Did you have a trach or just intubated for sometime? Thankfully, you got the proper treatments for cf. I hope you do come off the oxygen.


My friend was also diagnosed at the age of 52 with CF. Fortunately, she just received a double lung transplant. She is now 54. She has two children. I hope to bring her onto this site so you all can chat.

sincerely
Risa
PS you can read my story on the stories section
 

CowTown

New member
Thanks for sharing. You are an inspiration! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
I hope you had a fabulous day basking in the sun. That sounded great!
 

anonymous

New member
I would also like to thank you for posting your story. As a mother to a child with CF it is so wonderful to hear from people that are in their 50's with CF. It gives me great hope for my daughters future.

Kaitsmom<img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">
 

Debi

New member
To answer some of the questions people have asked:

I did NOT have the diagnosis of CF when we adopted, but had the cough and the meds and chest PT. We were able to be very open with the adoption agency, and they were wonderful. However, I do not know if that would have been different if I had had the diagnosis, because then everyone gets all worked up about the statistics, life expectancy, etc. I'd like to be optimistic and say it wouldn't have mattered, but I think it would have. However, if you are interested in adopting, I would still pursue it and see what happens.

When I was on the vent, it was for about 5 days, and I was intubated. It was truly my near-death experience and one about which I could write volumes.

The pulmonary rehabilitation course that I took was at a facility set up like a mini-gym (such as a mini-LA Fitness center or Gold's Gym). Attended for about 3 months, twice a week. Fortunately for me, insurance paid for it, but knowing what I learned from it, it would be worth finding a way to pay for it myself if they hadn't. Each session lasted about 60-90 minutes, and consisted of a physical workout and a class. The workout was tailored to each individual. Mine consisted of time on the treadmill, stationary bike, and weights. For about the first half of the rehab a specially trained therapist was with me during the workout to offer tips, encouragement, etc. The first sessions were comical. I could do about 3 minutes each on the treadmill and bike and lift about 5 pounds. However, by the time I was done, I could do 30 minutes at a respectable clip on the cardio equipment and do whatever what was considered good on the weights (don't remember the amounts). More valuable long term were the classes, in which we learned tons about the proper way to use inhalers (timing in between inhalations, proper way to hold, exactly when to inhale - some of this isn't as necessary any more due to the powdered forms and the spacers), how to breathe more efficiently, how to conserve energy, how to eat to gain or maintain weight. For example, we learned that getting dressed is a very tiring activity for someone with lung disease. I always found myself huffing and puffing after getting dressed, and now it made sense. So, now I get dressed as much as possible sitting down. There were literally hundreds of invaluable tips like that I use every day. It's hard to explain all this in writing - what was so great about the class was that they did demonstrations and diagrams. I'm sure most of you already know all about these kinds of things. If not, maybe we should do a compilation of helpful ideas for each other.

I am happy that my longevity brings hope to some of you. I want you to know that I am well aware there is a major "luck" or "fate" factor that helps explains why I am still here. I am grateful for that every day. Others have been equally diligent in their care and passionate about staying on this planet and died much earlier anyway. Life with, or without, CF remains a fragile, mysterious enterprise.

Debi
54 w/CF
 

anonymous

New member
Debi,

Thank you SO much for sharing your story! It is very encouraging to hear your experience and gives me much hope for my own future! I fully believe that emotional mindset plays a gigantic role is physical health, and I also think that the age of diagnosis plays a part as well. Your story was a nice reminder to re-evaluate my attitude and focus on the positive!

Thanks again, may you continue to be well!

Melanie
25 Fw/cf
 

Debi

New member
In the interest of full disclosure, you need to know that even though I tend to look on the bright side, I can whine and rant and rave about this nightmare disease with the best of them. One of my most common lines when I'm struggling is to just look skyward and say "If this is the way the rest of my life is going to be, do me a favor and just take me now!" And then I don't get "taken" so I decide to try once again to make the best of it. I've been feeling like crap for the past 5 weeks and have to do an attitude adjustment at least 2-3 times every day lately. I don't know if it helps keep me alive (we all know lots of people with wonderful attitudes who died anyway), but it helps make the time I have here a lot more enjoyable for me and for everyone around me.

Debi
54 w/CF
 

JustDucky

New member
Debi, your story was awesome to read, and you are awesome as well, very inspiring! You keep that fighting spirit and great attitude. Hugs, Jenn <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
S

skh

Guest
Debi, thank you so much for sharing your story. As a mom to a daughter with CF you have offered me hope for my daughter's future and I thank you for that! It's good to know that you are human and that you whine, rant and rave along with the rest of us!

Sue
 

anonymous

New member
Debi where in AZ do you live? My husband and I are moving out to Tucson in about 4 years. I met with the doc and UMC and I would love any advice you might have about CF care in AZ. Also, does the climate really help you? I know I do better in warmer weather but we do not get enough of it and when it is warm it is too humid here in Chicago. Please tell me more about AZ CF care.


Jennifer 34years old with CF and CFRD, diagnosed at age 2
 

JennifersHope

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<blockquote>Quote<br><hr><i>Originally posted by: <b>Debi</b></i><br>. One of my most common lines when I'm struggling is to just look skyward and say "If this is the way the rest of my life is going to be, do me a favor and just take me now!" And then I don't get "taken" so I decide to try once again to make the best of it.


Debi, Thanks for sharing your story... It is nice to know that you can still have a quality life at the age of 54 with CF.. I have said that line on many occasions..... If this is what the rest of my life is going to be like, take me now.. I think it is normal to feel that way. At least I hope so. But, I really mean it. I with all my heart want quality.. and if quanitity is not a part of it then fine, but I don't want to live forever and suffer... rather live shorter and have really lived......... obviously I am aiming at quality and quantity.. but quality is way more important to me..any day......

Thanks for sharing your story.. and do us all a favor and get real, real old and have a good quality life to boot....


Jennifer
 

Debi

New member
Jennifer, I receive my care in the Phoenix area. UMC has a wonderful reputation as a medical facility, but I honestly do not know about their CF care. I'll check around, and if I hear anything I'll post it for you. I grew up in the midwest, and the humidity was awful for me. I find the heat, even when it's very dry, to be helpful, although when it is above 105 in August it does takes it toll.
 
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