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nu65

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It's hard to always put your health first. But we have to, we really have no choice in the matter. I've been struggling with making committments as well, I usually drop out of things because I either have pain or am too tired. I've tried to make my friends understand this, and the ones that stick around when I cancel are the ones I want to hold onto. It's so difficult to balance it all, I wish you luck! I don't really have much insight, I just know what its like to feel like a bad person because I just cant do it because of my health.
 
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nu65

New member
It's hard to always put your health first. But we have to, we really have no choice in the matter. I've been struggling with making committments as well, I usually drop out of things because I either have pain or am too tired. I've tried to make my friends understand this, and the ones that stick around when I cancel are the ones I want to hold onto. It's so difficult to balance it all, I wish you luck! I don't really have much insight, I just know what its like to feel like a bad person because I just cant do it because of my health.
 
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nu65

New member
It's hard to always put your health first. But we have to, we really have no choice in the matter. I've been struggling with making committments as well, I usually drop out of things because I either have pain or am too tired. I've tried to make my friends understand this, and the ones that stick around when I cancel are the ones I want to hold onto. It's so difficult to balance it all, I wish you luck! I don't really have much insight, I just know what its like to feel like a bad person because I just cant do it because of my health.
 
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nu65

New member
It's hard to always put your health first. But we have to, we really have no choice in the matter. I've been struggling with making committments as well, I usually drop out of things because I either have pain or am too tired. I've tried to make my friends understand this, and the ones that stick around when I cancel are the ones I want to hold onto. It's so difficult to balance it all, I wish you luck! I don't really have much insight, I just know what its like to feel like a bad person because I just cant do it because of my health.
 
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nu65

New member
It's hard to always put your health first. But we have to, we really have no choice in the matter. I've been struggling with making committments as well, I usually drop out of things because I either have pain or am too tired. I've tried to make my friends understand this, and the ones that stick around when I cancel are the ones I want to hold onto. It's so difficult to balance it all, I wish you luck! I don't really have much insight, I just know what its like to feel like a bad person because I just cant do it because of my health.
 
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beleache

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I just pick & choose... I do miss more than the average person and it does at times get to me, but i do the best i can.. and if people cant or wont understand it, oh well thats their problem..

{{{{{hugs}}}}} to you Kitty..

I pray for peace for you ... Hang in there <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> joni
 
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beleache

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I just pick & choose... I do miss more than the average person and it does at times get to me, but i do the best i can.. and if people cant or wont understand it, oh well thats their problem..

{{{{{hugs}}}}} to you Kitty..

I pray for peace for you ... Hang in there <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> joni
 
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beleache

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I just pick & choose... I do miss more than the average person and it does at times get to me, but i do the best i can.. and if people cant or wont understand it, oh well thats their problem..

{{{{{hugs}}}}} to you Kitty..

I pray for peace for you ... Hang in there <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> joni
 
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beleache

New member
I just pick & choose... I do miss more than the average person and it does at times get to me, but i do the best i can.. and if people cant or wont understand it, oh well thats their problem..

{{{{{hugs}}}}} to you Kitty..

I pray for peace for you ... Hang in there <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> joni
 
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beleache

New member
I just pick & choose... I do miss more than the average person and it does at times get to me, but i do the best i can.. and if people cant or wont understand it, oh well thats their problem..
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<br /> {{{{{hugs}}}}} to you Kitty..
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<br /> I pray for peace for you ... Hang in there <img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> joni
 
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MiddleAgedLady

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I'm in there with you. Going from active to mostly inactive has been very lonely for me. I think my no-showing at things I've RSVP'd to results in me getting fewer invitations. I pick and choose how and where I want to spend my energy. Its like I get so many energy dollars per week and I can choose to spend the whole wad at one event or dole out a dollar at a time. After my last hospitalization, I woke up one day at home and realized I felt GOOD. I was doing some housework I hadn't felt like doing for months and thought, "What a blessing!" That made me start laughing out loud. Housework has never been my "thang." But it pointed me to a change in perspective that comes with the disease. My faith is the glue that holds me together.
 
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MiddleAgedLady

Guest
I'm in there with you. Going from active to mostly inactive has been very lonely for me. I think my no-showing at things I've RSVP'd to results in me getting fewer invitations. I pick and choose how and where I want to spend my energy. Its like I get so many energy dollars per week and I can choose to spend the whole wad at one event or dole out a dollar at a time. After my last hospitalization, I woke up one day at home and realized I felt GOOD. I was doing some housework I hadn't felt like doing for months and thought, "What a blessing!" That made me start laughing out loud. Housework has never been my "thang." But it pointed me to a change in perspective that comes with the disease. My faith is the glue that holds me together.
 
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MiddleAgedLady

Guest
I'm in there with you. Going from active to mostly inactive has been very lonely for me. I think my no-showing at things I've RSVP'd to results in me getting fewer invitations. I pick and choose how and where I want to spend my energy. Its like I get so many energy dollars per week and I can choose to spend the whole wad at one event or dole out a dollar at a time. After my last hospitalization, I woke up one day at home and realized I felt GOOD. I was doing some housework I hadn't felt like doing for months and thought, "What a blessing!" That made me start laughing out loud. Housework has never been my "thang." But it pointed me to a change in perspective that comes with the disease. My faith is the glue that holds me together.
 
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MiddleAgedLady

Guest
I'm in there with you. Going from active to mostly inactive has been very lonely for me. I think my no-showing at things I've RSVP'd to results in me getting fewer invitations. I pick and choose how and where I want to spend my energy. Its like I get so many energy dollars per week and I can choose to spend the whole wad at one event or dole out a dollar at a time. After my last hospitalization, I woke up one day at home and realized I felt GOOD. I was doing some housework I hadn't felt like doing for months and thought, "What a blessing!" That made me start laughing out loud. Housework has never been my "thang." But it pointed me to a change in perspective that comes with the disease. My faith is the glue that holds me together.
 
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MiddleAgedLady

Guest
I'm in there with you. Going from active to mostly inactive has been very lonely for me. I think my no-showing at things I've RSVP'd to results in me getting fewer invitations. I pick and choose how and where I want to spend my energy. Its like I get so many energy dollars per week and I can choose to spend the whole wad at one event or dole out a dollar at a time. After my last hospitalization, I woke up one day at home and realized I felt GOOD. I was doing some housework I hadn't felt like doing for months and thought, "What a blessing!" That made me start laughing out loud. Housework has never been my "thang." But it pointed me to a change in perspective that comes with the disease. My faith is the glue that holds me together.
 
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