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blindhearted

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This is kinda a long post but I needed to vent and get some advice. So, I was wonder what you guys thought...

I work on Mon, Wed, and Fri at my job. But I dont go in until the mid-afternoon. Most ppl that I work with are smokers (my boss who I've known since I was three yrs old is actually a former home health nurse of mine until I was 9, and also a smoker). On the days I am not there I know that they smoke inside the building and I also believe they smoke until a few hours before I get there. Anyway, when I get there I can smell smoke and often it makes me short of breathe, gives me a headache, and sometimes caused a drop in Sats (i have a pulse-ox). When I first started they were very considerate about it. They would go outside. Now...well, not so much. I see half full ashtrays around, butts in the toilet in my office bathroom (building use to be a house, my office is set up in the master bedroom), etc. The building is closed up over night so it doesnt air-out. It is a small, private company so I dont think I have anything covering my rights. I have gone to my boss about this many times, and things will get better for a while but then they "forget". In the past 8-10 months I have been getting increased number of infections in my lungs (PA, MRSA, the basic stuff and some new). I'm starting to wonder if it is from the second-hand smoke exposure causing inflamation in my lungs, which opens the door for infection. I also dont get my treatments like I should. I get so busy that I dont have time (even though I know I should make time) and I forget. I'm sure that doesnt help but I'm working on getting better at that.
Anyway, the basic point is things have really changed at my job and I guess you would say that it is not for the better as far as my health goes. Between stress (I'm pretty much the only person who knows how to do certain things...no one else is interested in learning), not getting treatments, not eating (unless I do it on the way) and most of all the second-hand smoke exposure. I hate to quit because it is really flexable and if I'm sick, there's no big deal about it. Plus I've known my boss for so long I guess I feel a sense of loyality (plus this is my first job ever). I know what my family and friends thing about the situation. I wanted to see what other ppl with CF think. Do you think the lingering smoke is effecting my health, causing an increase in infections? What would you do in this situation? Sorry this was so long. Thanks for listening.
 

blindhearted

New member
This is kinda a long post but I needed to vent and get some advice. So, I was wonder what you guys thought...

I work on Mon, Wed, and Fri at my job. But I dont go in until the mid-afternoon. Most ppl that I work with are smokers (my boss who I've known since I was three yrs old is actually a former home health nurse of mine until I was 9, and also a smoker). On the days I am not there I know that they smoke inside the building and I also believe they smoke until a few hours before I get there. Anyway, when I get there I can smell smoke and often it makes me short of breathe, gives me a headache, and sometimes caused a drop in Sats (i have a pulse-ox). When I first started they were very considerate about it. They would go outside. Now...well, not so much. I see half full ashtrays around, butts in the toilet in my office bathroom (building use to be a house, my office is set up in the master bedroom), etc. The building is closed up over night so it doesnt air-out. It is a small, private company so I dont think I have anything covering my rights. I have gone to my boss about this many times, and things will get better for a while but then they "forget". In the past 8-10 months I have been getting increased number of infections in my lungs (PA, MRSA, the basic stuff and some new). I'm starting to wonder if it is from the second-hand smoke exposure causing inflamation in my lungs, which opens the door for infection. I also dont get my treatments like I should. I get so busy that I dont have time (even though I know I should make time) and I forget. I'm sure that doesnt help but I'm working on getting better at that.
Anyway, the basic point is things have really changed at my job and I guess you would say that it is not for the better as far as my health goes. Between stress (I'm pretty much the only person who knows how to do certain things...no one else is interested in learning), not getting treatments, not eating (unless I do it on the way) and most of all the second-hand smoke exposure. I hate to quit because it is really flexable and if I'm sick, there's no big deal about it. Plus I've known my boss for so long I guess I feel a sense of loyality (plus this is my first job ever). I know what my family and friends thing about the situation. I wanted to see what other ppl with CF think. Do you think the lingering smoke is effecting my health, causing an increase in infections? What would you do in this situation? Sorry this was so long. Thanks for listening.
 

blindhearted

New member
This is kinda a long post but I needed to vent and get some advice. So, I was wonder what you guys thought...

I work on Mon, Wed, and Fri at my job. But I dont go in until the mid-afternoon. Most ppl that I work with are smokers (my boss who I've known since I was three yrs old is actually a former home health nurse of mine until I was 9, and also a smoker). On the days I am not there I know that they smoke inside the building and I also believe they smoke until a few hours before I get there. Anyway, when I get there I can smell smoke and often it makes me short of breathe, gives me a headache, and sometimes caused a drop in Sats (i have a pulse-ox). When I first started they were very considerate about it. They would go outside. Now...well, not so much. I see half full ashtrays around, butts in the toilet in my office bathroom (building use to be a house, my office is set up in the master bedroom), etc. The building is closed up over night so it doesnt air-out. It is a small, private company so I dont think I have anything covering my rights. I have gone to my boss about this many times, and things will get better for a while but then they "forget". In the past 8-10 months I have been getting increased number of infections in my lungs (PA, MRSA, the basic stuff and some new). I'm starting to wonder if it is from the second-hand smoke exposure causing inflamation in my lungs, which opens the door for infection. I also dont get my treatments like I should. I get so busy that I dont have time (even though I know I should make time) and I forget. I'm sure that doesnt help but I'm working on getting better at that.
Anyway, the basic point is things have really changed at my job and I guess you would say that it is not for the better as far as my health goes. Between stress (I'm pretty much the only person who knows how to do certain things...no one else is interested in learning), not getting treatments, not eating (unless I do it on the way) and most of all the second-hand smoke exposure. I hate to quit because it is really flexable and if I'm sick, there's no big deal about it. Plus I've known my boss for so long I guess I feel a sense of loyality (plus this is my first job ever). I know what my family and friends thing about the situation. I wanted to see what other ppl with CF think. Do you think the lingering smoke is effecting my health, causing an increase in infections? What would you do in this situation? Sorry this was so long. Thanks for listening.
 

anonymous

New member
It doesn't sound like the flexibility is a fair enough trade for the conditions to which you're being exposed. I encourage you to look into finding a different job ASAP. There are plenty of other options out there, believe it or not. You don't need to stay where you are. If you do, you're only hurting yourself.

Good luck. I hope you find something better soon.
 

anonymous

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It doesn't sound like the flexibility is a fair enough trade for the conditions to which you're being exposed. I encourage you to look into finding a different job ASAP. There are plenty of other options out there, believe it or not. You don't need to stay where you are. If you do, you're only hurting yourself.

Good luck. I hope you find something better soon.
 

anonymous

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It doesn't sound like the flexibility is a fair enough trade for the conditions to which you're being exposed. I encourage you to look into finding a different job ASAP. There are plenty of other options out there, believe it or not. You don't need to stay where you are. If you do, you're only hurting yourself.

Good luck. I hope you find something better soon.
 

JennifersHope

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I really know for me, being around smoke or even someone that smells like smoke is horrible and hard on my lungs.. I get a more productive cough, my eyes burn, my throat burns and my lungs have spasms...

I totally understand what you mean about loving the job flexability but I don't think it is worth you losing lung function over by any means... My advice would be to tell your boss who is your friend that you love your job, that you feel a sense of loyality to him/her I would explain it just the way you did in your post....you heart of concern and loyality came shining through.. but tell them that you can't keep getting sicker and that the only way you can stay is if they totally stop smoking when you are there. I know some ppl who use air filter systems but I don't think that is going to be good enough for you..

Good luck, let us know what you do.. and how you handle it so we can learn from you...

Jennifer
 

JennifersHope

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I really know for me, being around smoke or even someone that smells like smoke is horrible and hard on my lungs.. I get a more productive cough, my eyes burn, my throat burns and my lungs have spasms...

I totally understand what you mean about loving the job flexability but I don't think it is worth you losing lung function over by any means... My advice would be to tell your boss who is your friend that you love your job, that you feel a sense of loyality to him/her I would explain it just the way you did in your post....you heart of concern and loyality came shining through.. but tell them that you can't keep getting sicker and that the only way you can stay is if they totally stop smoking when you are there. I know some ppl who use air filter systems but I don't think that is going to be good enough for you..

Good luck, let us know what you do.. and how you handle it so we can learn from you...

Jennifer
 

JennifersHope

New member
I really know for me, being around smoke or even someone that smells like smoke is horrible and hard on my lungs.. I get a more productive cough, my eyes burn, my throat burns and my lungs have spasms...

I totally understand what you mean about loving the job flexability but I don't think it is worth you losing lung function over by any means... My advice would be to tell your boss who is your friend that you love your job, that you feel a sense of loyality to him/her I would explain it just the way you did in your post....you heart of concern and loyality came shining through.. but tell them that you can't keep getting sicker and that the only way you can stay is if they totally stop smoking when you are there. I know some ppl who use air filter systems but I don't think that is going to be good enough for you..

Good luck, let us know what you do.. and how you handle it so we can learn from you...

Jennifer
 

blindhearted

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yes, ive told my co-workers. the two that I work with the most, dont smoke...third one does. one that doesnt smoke and the one who does smoke are children of the boss. i've told the one that smokes not to smoke around me and in my office, but if they see their mom, the boss, do it when I'm not there...then they dont think its a big deal to smoke if I'm not physically in the office, even though it lingers really bad.

i live in rual (country) north carolina.
 

blindhearted

New member
yes, ive told my co-workers. the two that I work with the most, dont smoke...third one does. one that doesnt smoke and the one who does smoke are children of the boss. i've told the one that smokes not to smoke around me and in my office, but if they see their mom, the boss, do it when I'm not there...then they dont think its a big deal to smoke if I'm not physically in the office, even though it lingers really bad.

i live in rual (country) north carolina.
 

blindhearted

New member
yes, ive told my co-workers. the two that I work with the most, dont smoke...third one does. one that doesnt smoke and the one who does smoke are children of the boss. i've told the one that smokes not to smoke around me and in my office, but if they see their mom, the boss, do it when I'm not there...then they dont think its a big deal to smoke if I'm not physically in the office, even though it lingers really bad.

i live in rual (country) north carolina.
 

Diane

New member
I had the same situation you are in right before i got married in 1993. I tolod the boss about my cf and that i couldnt work 9-5, so he allowed me to come in at 12:00 and also informed everyone not to smoke while i was there and so on. The novelty of the no smoking rule wore off quickly with everyone and they only limited their not smoking to only when i was there or they would in the warehouse. One time my boss himself came to show me how to do something and had a cigarette dangling out of his mouth at the time. Howdid he expect everyone else to stick with the agreement HE made that no-one would smoke around me when He himself kept forgetting. The day before my wedding i decided to quit. I loved the job and the flexibility and the extra income, but the smoking issue was too much. I've learned thru time that sometimes lung function can not be regained so do everything you can to maintain what you still have left. If that means quitting, then do it. Your health should come before money, job flexibility, and a friendly workplace. Good luck <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 

Diane

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I had the same situation you are in right before i got married in 1993. I tolod the boss about my cf and that i couldnt work 9-5, so he allowed me to come in at 12:00 and also informed everyone not to smoke while i was there and so on. The novelty of the no smoking rule wore off quickly with everyone and they only limited their not smoking to only when i was there or they would in the warehouse. One time my boss himself came to show me how to do something and had a cigarette dangling out of his mouth at the time. Howdid he expect everyone else to stick with the agreement HE made that no-one would smoke around me when He himself kept forgetting. The day before my wedding i decided to quit. I loved the job and the flexibility and the extra income, but the smoking issue was too much. I've learned thru time that sometimes lung function can not be regained so do everything you can to maintain what you still have left. If that means quitting, then do it. Your health should come before money, job flexibility, and a friendly workplace. Good luck <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
 
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