Keeping kosher is a giant pain in the you know what. Two dishwashers, 2 fridges, 2 sets of plates, 2 sets of pans, etc. Some people aren't *that* strict about it, and wash together, but my parents were hardcore about it. Then I starting dating Ry and was corrupted lol. You can have milk for breakfast, just not if you have meat. It's kind of confusing if you haven't had to do it. I don't anymore, only when I'm at home.