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anonymous

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Brian flew home to New York on Thursday because his grandfather was put on a resperator on Wednesday. We now know that he stopped breathing because of a massive stroke that left the left side of his brain dead. He passed away at about 1:15 pm New York time today. Brian does not associate with his father so his grandfather was his only real father figure. He is of course devistated. I was not able to go to New York with him because of work. It makes me so sad to think of him being so upset and all I can do is sit here and wait for him to come home, and I don't even know when that will be. I miss him so much, I can't sleep, I don't want to make any wedding plans until he's back. He'll be so upset that his grandfather won't be around to see us married. Brian also desperately wanted to have a son and name him after his grandfather before he passed away and that of course didn't happen.
 

kayleesgrandma

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Jessi, sorry to hear of the passing of your Brian's grandfather. The bond between granparent and grandchild is very strong, especially if used in place of a parent figure. I am sorry for your and his loss.
 

Landy

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Jessi
I'm sorry Brian (& you) are going through such a rough patch lately. I hope he does OK through the loss of his grandfather. I was thinking that you had posted a month or more ago about him possibly being semi-depressed??? Or was that someone else I'm thinking of? I hope this doesn't get him down too much.
At any rate, you're both in my thoughts. Hang in there.
 

JohnnaMarie

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Jessi:

I am very sorry to hear of the sad time that is happening with Brian and also with you. I will have you both in my thoughts! My husband was also raised by his grandfather and lost him too. He never knew his bio father either. I wish you both the best.

Much Love
 

Jane

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Jessi,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Its so hard to know someone is hurting and you can't be there with him. My thoughts go out to you guys.
 

thefrogprincess

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Thank you all. Brian is a mess right now. It makes me cry to just think about how upset he is. I think he had been a little depressed for a while after his surgery, but I think he was finally coming out of it when his grandpa went into the hospital. I hope this doesn't set him back too much. I hope he still wants to get married even though grandpa won't be there.
 

julie

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Jessi,

I am so very very sorry for your and Brian's loss. I don't know what to say, other than you KNOW I am thinking and praying for the two of you (always!!) but will especially pray for brian at this hard time with his grandfather.

Email me if you want to chat further!
 

Diane

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Im sorry that you are both going thru such a rough time lately. I will keep Brian and you in my prayers <img src="i/expressions/rose.gif" border="0">
 
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