That last post was me!
I don't know what button I hit, but I wasn't finished!
Anyway, we really didn't receive any guidance with this test. I did alot of research, so I know that technically there are no guarantees. We had to get the test through our primary, and they really didn't know alot about it. I had to basically hold the doctor's hand just to get the right prescription filled for the bloodwork. But, we have an appointment with the genetic counselor at St Vincent's CF center in a few weeks, to talk about the results, any further testing, ect.
Liz, you're such a sweetie! I wish we were closer (and that I didn't have cepacia) so we could hang out! I've been meaning to tell you this, but you look EXACTLY like my sister-in law. When I saw your picture I took a double take. I still can't believe it! Everytime I see it, I forget that it's you and not her.
Anyway, as far as when we'll start trying, I don't know. I still am not 100% sure if we want to try or adopt. To be honest, I really would be equally happy with either, but I know that conceiving would be my husband's first choice. So, I'll do either.
So, here's an interesting update to my ongoing baby troubles!!!!!!!!!
If any of you remember my last few threads, the main problem has been my husband's fears, and his wanting to do all these things before having kids. The issue is, I feel strongly about starting when I'm young and in the best of health, which would be very soon. And he, could easily wait many many years. As of late we have compromised on 2 years.
So, last night when he came home, I told him the results. (I just realized that all of you found out the results before he did-ha!) Anyway, I wanted to try to see how concerned he was with the results, so when he came home, I just said-"so hon, your test results came back.' And I stopped there. And he's like-'and, and?' So, before telling him, I just asked him if he's nervous, would he be dissapointed if he was a carrier..? I gave him a minute to think about it.
Then I told him. A side of him came out that I haven't seen yet! He was so happy, he hugged me. And I tried not to be too overly excited. (I don't want to ever come off as pushing kids on him.) But HE was like-'we need to do this test, and let's test my sperm count and let's do this, call and make this appointment...We need to start renovating the house, b/c I don't want you breathing in construction dust while you're caring for a baby"
I couldn't believe it! It really was true, what many of you said. He just needed time to get used to the idea! He needed to realize on his own how much he wanted it!
He's a guy, so I expect ups and downs of course. So, I'll appreciate any further advice on any aspect of this situation. Many of you have been through this. I'll need all the advice I can get.
Christian