I get nervous too around one of DH's uncles who used to smoke -- now he smokes cigars and doesn't inhale because he has "asthma", for which he needs to use a nebulizer (after not inhaling) <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0"> Fortunately, he doesn't come to many family events and DS is usually on the go and doesn't have much to do with him.
What I WAS concerned about earlier this year was my FIL, who has sinus issues, has had several surgeries over the years -- and the last time he had a miserable sinus infection, my husband took MIL aside and explained we were concerned about what his dad could be harboring in his sinuses -- especially since my FIL tends to use a hanky, which he carries around and stuffs back in his pocket -- haven't been able to address that issue yet -- but I digress...
Anyway, my MIL goes along to the ENT appointments and requests they do a culture to make sure he's not growing anything nasty.
What I WAS concerned about earlier this year was my FIL, who has sinus issues, has had several surgeries over the years -- and the last time he had a miserable sinus infection, my husband took MIL aside and explained we were concerned about what his dad could be harboring in his sinuses -- especially since my FIL tends to use a hanky, which he carries around and stuffs back in his pocket -- haven't been able to address that issue yet -- but I digress...
Anyway, my MIL goes along to the ENT appointments and requests they do a culture to make sure he's not growing anything nasty.